Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Last year this time we were beginning the search for another place to live, and preparing to file bankruptcy. This year, we've redefined our finances and successfully, and gratefully, been living abundantly.
This year we moved (again), and made firm decision to live in This House for the forseeable future, we are purchasing, and stretching out into the permanence of our decision. Interestingly this material permanence has produced interior growth and shifts.
This year I succeeded in homeschooling my firstborn into reading and the 4 arithmetic processes, then spring came as did the bouncing baby boy, and lots of learning for the Little-Big sister as well as the Big-Big sister. It became painfully apparent in the fall that homeschooling wasn't serving her, my energetic resources were stretched too thin. The school we enrolled with has been a serendipitous blessing. Her favorite subjects at holiday break are handwork, eurythmy, and spanish. Observing her this Christmastime, she's grown immensely, the space created with her attendance to Mountain Phoenix has allowed she and I to travel more parallel than crosswise. With a whole new community to explore and connect with, she and I have had our work cut out for us---for me especially amidst learning the means and methods of brick-and-mortar school. And I've mourned the change, still do when I come across some curriculum material. I've fallen in love with her again, she's really a magnificent little person. She's lost teeth, gained a new kitten and a couple of hermit crabs, gotten her ears pierced, left gymnastics, learned to knit, started soccer and is excited about volleyball.
This year, Little-Big sister, giggly in the middle, has grown into a character of comedy. While she does push in her 3 year old way, it's been interesting watching her roll into her role. With a break from her big sister she's grown into her own person bit by bit, has her own community of friends at MHCEC. Lovely have been the afternoons driving to the pick up line while The Second-born is giggling herself stupid in the backseat making baby brother laugh. It appears she's about to step up into the preschool room, quite a bit earlier than I ever considered...based on her verbal skills, her ability to use scissors, and dress herself among many other things.
This year, a beautiful baby arrived, he graced us with his presence late May and has been a complete joy. It must be stated, boys and girls are different from the start. As soon as he surpassed the first vague interactions, without coercing, steering, or guiding...boys are different than girls. He has a different personality of course, but I'm noticing, what I surmise, are basic male v. female differences with development and activity and interest. I find myself studying all little boys more closely, researching this boy-energy. He's starting to rock, he creeps a bit, and tummy-spins and rolls about the floor loudly babbling his focus or his frustration. Already he has definite opinions about injustices of mommy needing to eat or potty-break. Gratefully he has innate patience when it's necessary to focus my attention on the ridiculous 3 year-old antics.
This year, The Man and I have succeeded in moving the household, straightening out and recommitting our responsibilities financially, getting comfortable and enjoying our community, disagreeing then agreeing, laughing and loving, redoubling our conscious parenting efforts, gracefully growing forward. I'm so blessed to have this man as my partner in this adventure.
Happily happily into the new calendar year!